Awesome advice, thanks again. Before I read it I had already taken the side panel off. Unplugged the 23 pin from the screen and looked and connectors, nothing obvious to the untrained eye. isolated the can bus wires from the rest, to get a good look at the union connection. Thought I had it figured out as one zip tie was right at the joints, bending them, and so I straightened it all out and fired up the system. Did it about 4 times and everything booted and looked perfect. Left it on, zero off was on to a known profile. Ran the blower while tidying up my mess thinking I would fire the engine and go for a spin. After about 3-4 minutes of the blower running things went south , flickering readings, pm reads 0, no satts, low fuel, set speed went to 70 and back and forth etc. Hand my hand under the dash and was manipulating the can bus in-line connection to no avail.
tomorrow I will take the screen out and look closer at the pin connectors, maybe I will post a picture