By no means am I a great skier, nor do I claim to be. But I can recognize a glaring flaw in your skiing, mostly because it's something I struggle with as well. And the best way I can think of helping you see it is with photos. So here's some photos of people who ARE great skiers, at or near the apex of their turns, followed by a few stills of you.
Now you:
28 off
35 off
Granted, the other skiers are skiing on a shorter rope than you, but they are at lengths that are probably as short for them as 35 is for you. The fundamental difference between them and you is that they've learned to let their skis "cast out" so they reach full extension at the apex of their turns. Meanwhile, there's no point in your turn where your "reaching" hand is more than a foot or two away from your free hand - in fact, you could probably have left both hands on the handle and still gotten the same results. Which, at 35 off, are:
There aren't too many skiers around that can suck up THAT kind of slack. In my opinion you have to learn how to let your ski cast out, trusting that the speed and power you gained through the wake will let you reach full arm extension, and then make the ski "snap" back under the line. No question the other changes advised here are very important too, but if you can't learn to release and reach "properly" I'd say you may have found your ceiling.