UPDATE - My mechanic called me today to tell me what all was wrong with the boat and what he did to fix it.
He said the gas smell was from a bad thermostat, the engine wasn’t coming up to temperature so more gas was being added then needed trying to get the engine temp up!
The high oil pressure was around 8psi lower when he connected a manual gauge. He changed the oil to 15/40 as some of you suggested, and replaced the sending unit. He said the oil pressure isn’t concerning at this point.
My water leak was shaft packing, it was pouring not dripping out of the shaft.
My ACL is healing well I hope to get the boat soon and at least take her for a ride on the lake before it’s to cold.