@disland: my family used to come to the nationals with me, but that was only because I was a jumper and we all knew the odds were pretty high that I wouldn't be able to drive myself home. They hated the boredom, usually brutally hot conditions, and the wife in particular detests porta potties.
Besides my data on the buoy chasers I know in both eastern WA and Illinois, I've been to two tournaments in the last 4 years. There were a smattering of high end motorhomes at each, containing families who were, on the surface, involved in skiing. Those families were, without fail, welcoming and hopeful that I would get back into the tournament scene on a more active basis.
It became a bit awkward when I was being pressed for reasons behind my polite non-committal answers on why it had been 15 years since my last tourney, or in the second case, 3 years.
I couldn't say "because my wife hates these damn things, and dragging her to one just puts me farther in the ski doghouse". Because, I know for a fact, that a good percentage of the motorhomes were bought to try to bribe the wives and kids to come to the tourney, in a failed attempt to convert the individual obsession into a "family outing" that the baller could get credit for.
The guys who are happy posting about their wives skiing participation along with their family are happy and excited BECAUSE THEY KNOW ITS RARE.
The guys who ski nationals are a self-selecting group: they got to nationals in part because they have families who enable their addiction.
Somebody posted earlier "if there is a guy better than you, he's got more money". In my experience, he's also got a second wife, recently divorced, or is one of the few that happened upon a woman who enjoys heat, humidity, bugs, and boredom.
I'm not arguing that such women/families don't exist. I grew up around the Kreugers and Chappels in Illinois. I am arguing they are rare.
And I'm not pissed off at my wife. In fact, if she was as into this as me we'd have given up a lot of balance that I'm pretty sure was a good thing.
My position, from which the data posted has moved me not one millimeter, is that on the whole, buoy chasing is not a family sport. And if we define buoy chasing as skiing, and the problem we're trying to solve is we want more buoy chasers, then my opinion is that we need to be realistic about a big drawback to our cause.
Snow skiing, on the other hand, worked out for us as a big family sport. We have two or three big trips a year, multi-generational, anywhere from 4 to 18 people vectoring in from all locations around the country. Those are really good times. But nobody is there to chase gates.