No, I went with a non tilt helm (again to reduce the play) my old helm was tilt and in pretty good shape but I wanted something that was tight with no slop.
at this point im going with what I have, (the shitty quality seastar) Ive put 3 helms and cables in this boat in the last week and I just wanna ski. I guess I just have to accept that my standards are too high.
In hindsight I should have just found a replacement cable for the stock helm but Im not even sure that is possible (its an old morse) if I really hate it I might go that way in the future.
thanks again for the responses!