There is nothing wrong with the gate width. The problem is in the coast for the gates and the balance point on the turn in. Your center of mass is well behind your feet on the gate coast and as a result on the turn in for the gates your ski comes underneath the line first, ahead of your shoulders and feet. This creates a slower loaded position.
Think about it, you start to lean toward the wakes but then you stop that lean to allow the ski to catch up. That costs you time and demands that you hold an overloaded position. Basically, you are waiting until the ski comes completely underneath the line to begin your acceleration and this is what’s costing you everything.
Stand taller on the glide, keep your hips rotated out more toward the shore and when you commit to the turn, your upper and lower body must move toward the wakes as quickly as possible leading your feet and ski. The ski should not come between you and the boat until you are at least at the first wake, you are doing this from the very beginning.
Getting as wide as possible does nothing to alleviate this problem, the problem of being able to stay inside the turning arc with your body for as long as possible, that’s how you create the speed you need without the overload which undoubtedly is popping you to the inside of the line into 1 ball. One only needs to look at a Nate Smith gate to see this happening.