@rodltg2
I hear you, and can relate as a fellow 15-28 hacker. My wife and I are traveling to our first tournament this weekend since we were on our college team.
After we finished with the college team we didn't see a lot of reason to go to tourneys. They were often far away, expensive (we were both still in grad school), and we were not very good. So we were content to plop our boat in the lake and ski our course with our boat with our friends.
Last year we joined a club that hosted tournaments and skied in our clubs tournaments, our first since collegiate tournaments. It was not what we expected and we really enjoyed it. We have since had to move, changed clubs, but will be traveling to a few tournaments this year.
The reason we enjoyed the tournaments last year are for many reasons described by others above. I was never sold on the idea of competing against myself, you can do that in practice. So the idea of going to 'compete' when I knew there was no real competition (I was going to get my butt kicked) AND I had to PAY for it? Ridiculous.
BUT, as I said, I was pleasantly surprised and hopefully you will be too.
You will meet people who are not that interested in talking to you because of your skill level, ignore them. You will meet people who have been friends since they were 5 and grew up competing against each other, pick their brain. Get some people and go out for beers when things are over.
I don't know if we are going to become national competitors or want to enter a tournament every weekend but we are going to give it a go and see what happens. I think more people should.
Long-story short, stay positive, keep an open mind, let the buoys fall where they may. You may be as pleasantly surprised, as I was, and want to keep going back just to get beat by the other guys opening pass.