She knows exactly when I'm skiing and the time commitment is frequently a source of discussion. But, it is always in the open and she usually deals with it or realizes it keeps me sane. However, there may have been a ski purchase or other equipment expense that has gone unreported. Even those are rare, but have happened. The ski budget is discussed as well, but we seem to get through it.
Probably the most deceptive I have been was buying a truck and subsequently buying a boat a few months later. She never saw that one coming, though I had it all mapped out. She warmed up to it and, as I replaced/upgraded each boat, insisted on open bow and family-friendly to provide more return on investment. We do spend a lot of time on the water outside of regular course skiing and the family has enjoyed the boat. The Malibu RLX has been a great boat that kept the open bow while providing a fantastic slalom wake.
Side note: I also bought a new car one Saturday morning when I originally went in for a tune-up. But, in my defense, I got 30% off and we drove it for 12 years.