I'm going to check later and i'll answer each question above specifically. What I recall is, when I hook up my truck, all of the lights come on but only for the short time period when the auxillary lights are on. Once they "time out", I get nothing. All lights are black, no turn, no brake, no nothing. I don't believe I've tested with headlights on but I will do specified testing as above and report back later.
And, as mentioned, when I hook my sons truck up to it, everything works as it should.