@jimski you might find the ‘group’ always want to go out with you because they don’t have to provide anything. If you were ok with that then great, but barely paying for gas is just plain bad manners in my book. Regular skiers should also have all their own gear to lessen your burden, it seems maybe they aren’t aware of common etiquette here?
Providing the boat all the time is tough work with maintenance costs and upkeep also, you’d at least want to be appreciated and have plenty of offers to wipe down after use?