Both my boys were in the boat from birth. Think our key to success with them was probably all about the boundaries & discipline.
The boat can be a dangerous place. They had very strict guidlines. Sit down mean't sit down.
They were both included in activites, like pulling the rope in or un-zipping ski covers.
Both liked being responsible for these tasks when given to them.
Always had a balance of Positive comment with the firm guidlines, but never had to severely punish them for their mistakes. Mistakes are only to be corrected.
Never had to come down on them hard & now at 12 & 16 they (generally) do what they're told.
Never ceases to amaze me how some parents are able to ask their children to do things & then allow them to immediately do either the opposite, or exactly as they pleased.
Not doing them any favours.
@Wish, would love to have a chat with you on one of my pet dislikes, TMPR.....
(TOO MUCH positive reinforcement).
Cheers
Phil
PS. Still trying to resolve the issues of OTHER's children playing on the boat trailer when it's left in the water as a dock.
End Rant!