It all comes down to access. I joined a local club in 2005 and that has done more for my skiing (and my son’s skiing) than any ski, coaching, boat, etc...
The site is probably the best in our state and is the result of a couple guys 30 years ago knocking on a door and asking, “can we ski here?” Surely there are other spots like it, but they aren’t going to be obvious. Ours was a weed infested pond that has benefited tremendously from the regular boat path up and down our course.
We do manage the membership number. I realize that might not be popular in this thread, but let’s face it no one wants to spend a full day at the lake/pond to get 2 sets in. I don’t consider us “old boys”, but anyone looking to establish themselves at a new site needs to think about what they “bring to the table”. It could be a boat, high level coaching or driving, or perhaps a willingness to fix that broken bouy or boat lift regardless of the water temperature. People that approach it with that attitude fit right in, we find time for those people all day long. Just be cognizant of what you are bringing to the party. Our skiers range from 28 mph to 39.5 off.
All of our tournaments have filled to capacity in the past 5 years. As do the events north of us. Really happy to see a nice cross section of skiers; young, old, male and female.
My goal over the winter is to repair and re-establish a course at my family’s lake house on public water. It will ski 6 bouys harder at least, but hopefully we’ll get a good collection of kids infected with the slalom bug (and get the wakeboarders to stay at the other end!)