@skinut Here is how it goes down in Utah.
3 guys are business partners and they decide to go in on a boat together. Right there, a 200k boat is a 70k boat. They all have a wife and 3-5 kids. They only use the boat about 5-7 times per year, plus a weeklong trip to Lake Powell, so it's easy to share with 2 others - especially when they are your business partners and you see them every day and are used to sharing things with them.
So on those 5-7 times per year, they invite one other family in their neighborhood of about the same size, so now we have a group of 4 adults and almost 10 kids heading to the lake together for a day of fun in the sun.
So they get there and load the boat in and they all start surfing or trying to surf. The water is pretty rough as our lakes are really crowded, so even just getting to where you can let go of the rope turns out to be pretty challenging on such rough water. They spend the whole morning with everybody taking a turn of about 10 minutes at surfing and then they have some lunch out on the lake. Once that's done, now it's afternoon, the breeze has picked up, and the place is a madhouse so they break out the tubes. They usually tube 2-3 at a time, so now each kid gets a good half hour or so on the tubes while the adults just watch and by about 4-5 pm all the kids are smoked.
Now the adults might take one more quick turn on the surf before they go, but probably not. More likely, they just leave at 5 or 6 and grab some dinner together on the way home and get home right about a good time to start getting ready for bed etc.
Under the scenario above, nobody is ever "mastering" wakesurfing, and frankly, it was never about that to them. These are just simply folks who just want to make and have friends for themselves and their kids and they just want to beat the heat on a hot saturday but first and foremost, it's all about socializing. The whole experience is totally social and has nothing to do with mastering a skill or anything like it. It's like going mini-golfing. Nobody goes mini-golfing because they really want to get good at it. They go mini-golfing because there is a girl they want to take on a date and they need some excuse of something to do that they can call a date.